Good Manners Essential for Betterment |
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What is the need of good manners? This is million dollar question but with no such straightforward answer! But it has been a part of an age-old convention, which has been incessantly moving through ages with its thrust on the necessity of practice quondam beliefs. In each and every culture from the ancient times manners has been rendered the highest esteem and has therefore been regarded as the perfect embodiment of the ecstasy of the civilization. In the Oriental context it has a deeper meaning and is directly related to the gospel of spiritualism. It is this notion that has made the concepts of teaching and representation of good manners as essential to daily family life. So what has been found hitherto in the realm of different cultures as the foundation of manners? It is the same reflection of tradition, consideration and common sense; how old yet so modern in outlook! But what is the most important trait of all these facets? It is the notion of consideration that happens to be most significant behind all good manners. It is to be noted that almost always being thoughtful is considered to be well mannered. It is nothing but the novel way of concerning the way the other person feels. Therefore being vulgar indeed is bad manners, it is not since it has been enshrined in this regard, but because it tends to upset feelings. If you ever have an interest to give a glimpse into different civilizations you shall find that in each civilization there is an exclusive notion of good manners. Though there may be the difference of belief and also application, but all have one basic foundation and that is the creation of an ideal human being who tends to consider the feelings of others. If this ideal gets transmitted from one generation to another the newcomers or the kids will flourish in social situations by becoming good mannered people. But how can you begin his task? If only through the process of becoming conscious you treat your kid as if you were speaking to a mature, using simpler wording and examples they can narrate to of course, your kid will older sooner and respect others silence and quite. Posted by subhasis on Friday Aug 31 reply Comments |
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